24 weeks today!

My track of the day - just LOVE this

I'm 24 weeks exactly today, I've come so far and I still feel like I have a long way to go - 16 weeks.

The snow has been coming down like there is no tomorrow, the thought of venturing out is terrifying (lol).  That's so not like me.  I'm usually the first out there with my camera ready to snap away but I'm feeling a little low today.  Maybe the fresh air would lift my spirits but my husband has taken my 4 year old out for the day so I think a bit of peace and quiet will do the trick just as well.  Besides, I walk to nursery daily and have seen enough of the snow and frost for the time being - evidence below 

My boy is kicking like crazy at the moment and what a wonderful feeling it is.  I can almost feel his little feet, elbow and hands poking me.  Research says that the baby can now hear my voice - albeit muffled, and my heartbeat.  This scares me sometimes as I can get a bit shouty and my heart races, he must wonder what world he is coming into!!

I will miss some aspects of my pregnancy come 11th May but at the same time there are so many things about pregnancy that I just don't enjoy.  Don't get me wrong, I am aware how lucky I am to have conceived and have this wonderful growing person inside me but we tend to forget that when you have constant wind, crave food which are out of reach or deemed unsafe, cant sleep at night due to the inability to toss and turn as I'm used to.  The worst thing for me is the uncomfortability of the lack of space inside me.  I'm usually petite at 5'2 and a size 8-10.  Maternity clothes are great but I find im short of breath and my tummy itches.  I feel so guilty for complaining but I wonder if everyone feels the same?

Let me know your thoughts....enjoy the rest of your weekend!! xx

My little one

Just a quick post today.  I was so tired today after a rough night last night with my 4 year old.  So, I got lots of rest today and watched this amazing movie which led me to tears (not too difficult).  I adore the sound track as much as the movie so I just had to post this link.

Week 23 plus 4

Take some time to relax

My relaxation track of the week....just love/adore/worship MIGUEL

Well....this week has been a combination of exhaustion, highs and lows.  On one hand I feel like I'm an experienced mother and have done this all before so what am I complaining about.  But on the other hand, I've never actually been pregnant, worked full-time, looked after a 4 year old and a 16 year old (not forgetting being a 'perfect wife') and studied for a degree all at the same time.  I admit, I'm not one to do things by half and I enjoy a good old challenge BUT this is tough!

I spend my mornings rushing around getting myself and my beautiful daughter ready for our busy day, all before 8am.  This period of time includes shouting, yelling, hugs, kisses and by the time we are separated I breathe a sigh of relief.  I then analyse my morning thus far with a degree of guilt.  I usually forget I'm actually carrying a 23 week old baby too and as I rush around I am swiftly reminded when I'm suddenly struck with shortness of breath, stitch and a desperate need to visit the loo!

One thing I wont miss post pregnancy is my extreme emotions.  I seriously am out of control at time and blow things out of proportion all too often.  I'm lucky that my husband and children have actually learnt that this is my 'pregnancy personality'.  They have had little option but to accept and as much as I hate to use my pregnancy as an excuse its the only reason I can find to explain my extremism.  Luckily I'm able to control this in professional circumstances or I would be in BIG trouble.  

My tip of the day is when your feeling low: 

1. eat chocolate 
2. relax and count to ten whilst breathing deeply 
3. speak to close friends/family 
4. have a nap.

Or if your very lucky, treat yourself to a pregnancy treatment.  Here is one I've been pining over at a local hotel.

Pregnancy Massage £50

Duration: 55 mins

A gentle and relaxing massage to help ease this

‘demanding’ time on the body. Improving circulation,

muscle fatigue, back and joint pains

Soothing Foot and Leg Massage £29

Duration: 30 mins

Soothe away the aches and pains that pregnancy

brings also helping with circulation

Indian Head Massage £29

Duration: 30 mins

Soothe away stress and tension in the back, scalp and

face

Calming Aroma Facial £38

Duration: 45 mins

Gentle soothing natural facial

Back Massage £29

Duration: 25 mins

Gentle and soothing to ease

Have a good week.

22 weeks plus 1

Welcome to my pregnancy blog......

I start writing this blog at 22 weeks pregnant although I do have another blog which is ongoing.  This is my third child and I already have 2 girls so I'm very excited to be having a boy this time round - woohoo!! I wanted to share my experience with others in the hopes of gaining some advice, sharing ideas and support during this roller coaster ride of pregnancy. 

Pregnancy comes with its ups and downs, highs and lows, I must say that this particular pregnancy is draining every ounce of energy I have.  Working full-time, looking after a 4 year old and a 16 year old as well as keeping house is a very hard task.  But as women we just get on and do it.  I'm looking forward to my maternity leave in 3 months time and I think that's what is keeping me going at the moment.  By about 3-4pm I'm ready for bed but of course this is not possible.

My 4 year old is excited by the prospect of being a 'big sister' and I'm even more excited about having a son!  I must admit, I have been expecting a lot more from my girls as I am rather big now.  My youngest said to me this morning 'your tummy is ginormous' - she knows how to make a girl feel good.  Its all about delegation at this stage in preparation for the arrival of our little kipper.

Must dash, need to prepared for the day.....

Enjoy the rest of your weekend all and I look forward to hearing all about your experiences too!

xxx